My sympathies,
trecelyn . It must be real difficult.
Like most traumatic events, some gain and many lose.
I was in Aberfan a few years after the Disaster. It was both intriguing and appalling to see how differently folks got treated. It caused a fair bit of bad feeling.
Recently, my daughter ( elsewhere) could get no help with her B&B; just got offered poor ( couldn't pay) " covid security officers" from Africa as guests. Looked like their agent was running some scam, as the poor chaps never had money to pay their digs.
On the other hand, her friend, in minor business and married to a contractor defied the guidelines to go on holiday in Turkey. Got the cocid, and then, unbelievably, both got big cheques off the State. How? Dunno.
After a week or two they recovered and just carried on working! Actually, made money out of the whole thing.
Anyway, none of that is about trainers.;
A bit like the btfr forum jinx, just say a trainer or jockey is no good, and , sure enough they'll pop up with good winners.
I'm guilty of this.
Lost faith in Dave Loughnane and, not long after, he put in a good one. Luckily, on that occasion, I was not as rigidly set in my attitudes, so managed to get on.
Over decades, I found that sticking religiously to systems, methods, pre-conceived views, cost me plenty.
Hopefully, time has mellowed me enough to see that opportunities can pop up anytime,but, not to order.
Good luck with the club. Pob hwyl!.